You know, when you really look at a person, you see them.  I said somewhere once this guy was 'way cute,' and he is.  But he's a whole hell of a lot more; he's a whole human being for one thing -- including of course all the appropriate appendages (not that I know personally -- just surmizing).  But he's also got a voice, and he's got a brain, and the scariest thing of all for me is that Mays has got a heart.  Not that I know personally -- just surmizing... 

Check out his blog entry for .:: Saturday :: September 22 :: 2001 ::..  There's pics.  If you look at them, maybe you won't see a person, maybe you'll just see a picture.  I saw a person, and I'm right back where I was running from: I'm afraid.

I'm not afraid of pictures. 

PS:  I really can't believe that Mays is only 5'2" like he says.

PPS: He is not a child, as his appearance (at a stretch) suggests to some people.  He is a grown adult.  Once he even got laid-off from an adult-type job.  So there.